When a scheduled patient does not show for his or her appointment, this is called a ‘No Show’. I consider them godsends as they give me a breather to write prescriptions, return phone calls, and do other scut jobs. Once in a while, if there is nothing pressing, I can write a blog entry. It also makes me look ‘busy’ so the house manager won’t frown. I enjoy writing out my thoughts. I understand why some people become writers. The process of writing feels marvelous and satisfying. I asked myself on first day of blogging (2/08/06) ‘For whom am I writing this blog?” The question needs examination from time to time. I am writing for myself, but I would be fibbing if I said I write only for myself now. I write sometimes with others in mind. I sometimes write something thinking “X will enjoy this” or “Y will get a rise out of this one”.
There are about a dozen ‘Spo-fans’ who regularly leave comment, for which I am grateful. As I enjoy reading comments left here; I try to leave comment whenever I read another’s blog. Only once in a while I read and don’t leave a comment. That is because sometimes I can not think of anything to add or say. At last count, I have over 50 blogs on my list, and I hope they still visit me. A handful of my favorites have shut down or called it a day. A few stopped leaving comment, so I don’t know if they still read me or not. But, there are a few new folks coming around too. I am honored. My blogging buddies are changing. So I try to be interesting. If you have guests over, you want to entertain them, right?
Meanwhile, I wait for Doug of Gossemer Tapestry to stop by. He is in Arizona, chasing butterflies. The poor sod picked the wrong weekend. It is 60 degrees here – and 70 or so back in the Midwest.
I hope everyone has a good weekend.


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April 22, 2007 at 12:05 AM
Robert
I haven’t been here long enough, but I do like to visit. I feel safe… cuz maybe because you seem very level-headed to me. You also appreciate your readers like you said here, so I can imagine what you’re like in real life. I’m glad I found your blog.
I look forward to coming here.
Hope you’re having a good weekend! xoxo
Urspo – Thank you!
April 22, 2007 at 12:42 AM
Lemuel
I’m glad you had a few moments to blog today!
April 22, 2007 at 12:53 AM
Michael Guy
I’m a stealth fan. I pop in from time-to-time and always enjoy your thought-provoking posts. Except when they’re about opera. I’m not that gay…
Har!
Urspo – but my dear you make up for it in so many ways!
April 22, 2007 at 1:57 AM
Doug
You and I follow similar philosophies of blogging. I try very hard to leave comments on most blogs I read, but sometimes I am unable to think of anything to write. I sometimes leave a blog open and go on to the next, hoping my subconscious will use the time to produce something.
I think I might visit your blog in the futile hope of a free tele-psychoanalysis. Just kidding! Or do I have a subconscious motive in making that joke? Or am I over-analyzing this? And how does that make me feel?
Urspo – pay my usual fee and I will tell you
April 22, 2007 at 3:47 AM
Brent
I, too, stop by pretty regularly. Actually you are on my bloglines list, but I haven’t put you on my blogroll, yet, I’ll do that once i finish leaving my comment. Love your blog.
Urspo -I had no idea you were stopping by! Thank you for stopping by!
April 22, 2007 at 7:52 AM
deldell
It is marvellously satisfying to create a well crafted, well balanced sentence that communicates it’s meaning as precisely as an arrow flies to it’s target. Blogging has been a godsend to me, and I value all my blogfriends.
April 22, 2007 at 11:54 AM
Joel
For the record, I read you every day.
Like your no show, sometimes I’m a “no comment” kind of guy.
What can I say, sometimes you have good days…
Keep it up!?
Have fun!?
Urspo – I owe you a Tarot reading!
April 22, 2007 at 12:46 PM
foxystone
blogging is a fluid thing, people come together, commune and move on… some stay on longer. I always enjoy your thoughts and hold your posts in high esteem.
April 22, 2007 at 1:51 PM
tigeryogi
My blogging friends seem to come and go as well. But, I still have my core group of “sisters” to rely upon!
April 22, 2007 at 2:52 PM
Tony
Well bud….I ain’tg going just yet! And Spider says hello. In fact we both say “Stayed Tuned” for something different!!!!
Urspo – It would so wonderful to hear Mr. Spider in a ‘return”!
April 22, 2007 at 3:46 PM
maddog
I for one am glad you are out there blogging. It’s been nice getting to know you over the past few months. I too try to leave a comment when I read a post, but sometimes I just can’t think of anything to say. I hope you keep this up for a long time to come.
April 22, 2007 at 3:47 PM
Maggie
You are solid Spo. You are consistent with your posting and always, well………..nearly always, have something interesting to read about.
No one’s perfect.
I don’t know how you have the time to visit and comment on the # of blogs that you do.
BTW
I love your blog!!
Urspo – You are one my lady sweethearts!
April 22, 2007 at 5:52 PM
mikeyx121
Blogging is an odd thing and I still have not figured it all out. It is a living thing that changes faster than I can keep up with sometimes. I learn a great deal from you and look forward to reading you…Don’t you just love the NO SHOWS…a new concept for me, but already I find myself breathing easier when it happens… does that make me bad?
April 22, 2007 at 6:42 PM
laurie
I have been visiting, but haven’t had much time to comment lately. I hope that will change now that I’m back “home”.
Hugs,
Laurie
April 22, 2007 at 8:33 PM
johnmichael
I’m a huge Spo-fan, especially cause I once considered psychiatry.
I would do the same–play on the computer to look busy and avoid getting a patient dumped on me. It always happened during clinical rotations, if I didn’t look busy, the residents would pass history checking down to us, or checking patients for vitals signs. Not that I’m lazy–oh never mind. I am sure you understand.
Urspo – Sweetums, you are going to encounter a hellofa lot more psychiatry than I do, they will only be showing it in physical complaints!
April 22, 2007 at 9:03 PM
Pete
I read regulary but I know I don’t always leave a comment. Sometimes I don’t know what to say. I just love your site I learn so much on different topics. I probably have never told you so here goes. Thank you for opening my mind and giving me an education.
Urspo – why, thank you very much! I am touched.
April 23, 2007 at 5:06 PM
Greg
I don’t comment all the time, either. Someone may have already said what I wanted to say — and said it much better. Or, I can’t think of anything to say. But that doesn’t mean that I’m not reading!!
April 23, 2007 at 5:19 PM
Bigg
I bet your afternoon was way warmer than ours was, but it was beautiful here too.
I really like your blog, Spo — I hope you keep at it for a good long time to come.
April 23, 2007 at 11:39 PM
Just Jock
I don’t always comment. Some people are too talented and intimidating for me. I sit dumbfounded and wonder what the hell can I possibly add that won’t make me sound like a complete moron. So, I say nothing and hope they understand.
You’re one of those people.
But I do thank you for allowing glimpses into your mind, and…yeah, wasn’t it a bit on the chilly side the last few days?
Uh…I’m going now.
Urspo – I wish I had half the razor wit as JustJock. For those who don’t know his blog; it is a hoot!