I don’t seem to have any zeal for Hallowe’en this year.
This may be a symptom of the lingering autumnal seasonal affective disorder, but I think it is more. It is hard to get into the feeling of a holiday without the usual cues. I have no fall colour, no signs of autumn. Even the night remains too hot for sleeping. It is hard to celebrate ‘the passing of the year’ when every month more or less feels the same.
But I think the main reason for the lack of excitement is I am growing old. As a boy, Hallowe’en used to be wonderful, magical, and exciting. Every year I try to revive some of this thrill through nostalgia; I play familiar music, I get out vintage decorations etc. Alas, there is nothing there anymore; all the ‘juice’ has been squeezed out of the orange. At this point the notion of getting out the boxes seems too tiring.
In contrast, my brother has Hallowe’en excitement as he has children; my two nephews are squealing with delight in anticipation of costume parties and trick-or-treating. I think you need children to feel excited about a holiday.
Otherwise holidays are a drudge. When you can’t have tradition, you should have an adventure. Perhaps I should stop trying to make it ‘what it was’ and do something new and adventuresome.
We’ll see what the next few weeks bring.
Anyone with some new ideas to try?


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October 16, 2007 at 6:17 am
Kirin
“I think you need children to feel excited about a holiday.”
I think that you hit the nail on the head, Hon.
We have two huge sarcophaguses (sarcophagie?) of Halloween decorations and for the last few years now I just haven’t felt like decorating.
I’m anxious to see if anyone has any suggestions as well…
October 16, 2007 at 6:33 am
Lemuel
I feel that way about most holidays - especially Christmas.
October 16, 2007 at 10:01 am
mo
This is the first year in 15 years I haven’t decorated.
Every time I see Halloween decorations I get maudlin.
Breaking up sucks.
I think my SAD is turning into EDDY (that would be Every Day Depression, Y’all)
Hope the sprites bite your bum and put you in a spooky mood soon.
October 16, 2007 at 10:52 am
"Joe"
I know that it puts my gay credentials in question, but I’ve never liked hallowe’en much. Maybe unhappy memories from childhood. But a party can always be fun. Even though I’m not in a position to host a party at present, I think it’s a good plan for the future.
October 16, 2007 at 11:40 am
BID
Go visit my blogroll and see Tink for today. She has some awesome pics of jack o lanterns!!
I to am not feeling real spunky. I don’t think you are turning into an old fart just yet. It’s just not the year for it I guess.
October 16, 2007 at 2:25 pm
deveil
it’s always been one of my favorite holidays, I’m kind of right there with you, I have no one to dress in drag with, lol. Or I could just be a real freak on Halloween this year. If I shaved everything, no one would know it was me.
October 16, 2007 at 4:45 pm
merrimerri
Hallow’een is the most destructive time at my workplace. The kids use the holiday as an excuse to wreck and deface as many things as possible.
So I rather dread the time.
October 16, 2007 at 5:01 pm
Doug
I wish I had something insightful. My plan this year is to carve pumpkins, which I haven’t done in at least 10 years. We’d like to attend a Hallowe’en party, too, another thing we haven’t done in forever. Surrounding ourselves with friends always seems to help.
October 16, 2007 at 6:30 pm
steve'swhirlyworld
Climb to the top of Camelback and hurl pumpkins onto the roof of a zillion dollar mansion…and then drink cider
October 17, 2007 at 6:22 am
Robert
I do like Halloween because of the kids, and some of the parents are quite creative as far as their kids’ costumes!! I think this year I’ll dress up as Gary Coleman!
October 18, 2007 at 8:26 am
Mark H
It’s hell to lose that kid excitement! I see it as one of the effects of not having kids, hence, no grandkids, but it’s a fact…..NO kids, no excitement. We live remote enough that the locals drive their kids outta OUR neighborhood to clustered neighborhoods where they can cash in on lots of treats. We always buy a little bag of candy, and NOBODY comes to our houses in our immediate “block”. Orphans, we are. I guess I’ll have to go make your Flank Steak and see if that cheers us up. Thoughtful stuff!
October 18, 2007 at 8:44 am
Cliffie
I am positively dreading it this year, because Halloween has become a Bad Anniversary for me. The box of halloween equipment is right there but I don’t even feel like opening it. It’s worse because there are never, ever, ever trick-or-treaters at my door since I moved to my current place. My thought is to adultify the holiday with some experimental pumpkin recipes or maybe a cheering Satanic rtual.
October 18, 2007 at 2:17 pm
Joel
To get into te spirit, get pumpkins and empty them to make a recidpy or something. Then use that excuse to carve it. Dress up to answer the door.
Imagine yourself dressed like the devil on the 31 and see how your patients react. lol
October 18, 2007 at 2:17 pm
Joel
To get into the spirit, get pumpkins and empty them to make a recidpy or something. Then use that excuse to carve it. Dress up to answer the door.
Imagine yourself dressed like the devil on the 31 and see how your patients react. lol
October 18, 2007 at 3:48 pm
pink
how about reclaiming it as Samhain, the pagan festival?
or……..you could start a tradition of going to NYC for the parade…
just a thought.
xx
pinks