The Prostitute is an intriguing archetype. When I went to “shrink school” this archetype was not part of the Pantheon of ‘classic archetypes’. In my ongoing studies, I’ve heard reasonable arguments to consider it an important archetype for all. For it is integral towards survival. In order to do more than survive, The Prostitute needs to be confronted. The Prostitute normally conjures up a negative picture; a woman selling her body. So it needs some explanation.
The Prostitute is really about how consciously or unconsciously you sell your power or psychic energy (called libido by Jungians) in exchange for something. The usual desired object is money and all it entails - safety. But people prostitute for status, advancement, and other things as well. Selling your body is only a portion of the Prostitute. Physical prostitution is probably not as consequential as selling your power. For this is about power. We all sell ourselves to some degree for deemed safety. Most people with high Prostitute energy are in ‘financial bondage’ either in relationships or in hateful jobs.
How much to do you negotiate your power so others have you creative energy? How much do you sell yourself in order to get something in exchange?
Long time Spo-Fans know the Archetypes and their energies are neither ‘good’ nor ‘bad’. They have positive and negative elements. So how is the Prostitute Archetype positive? At first it doesn’t sound likely it could be ‘positive’.
Its positive aspects arise when we consciously decide to negotiate our energies, views and positions for some other good or towards the good of others. In its highest conscious state it is called The Sacred Prostitute - the paradox of knowing you sell yourself but can’t be bought.
The Prostitute is not out to sell you; it points out how you would sell yourself and stay in situations despite the harm. It tells you to make a choice, not what choice to make. The decision to unplug from a Prostitute charged situation – a bad job, a bad marriage – requires enormous courage, for it means going into the unknown of ‘how will I support myself”. I admire people who can do so.


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March 17, 2008 at 7:45 am
Lemuel
My father talked about similar concepts but in much less neutral terminology.
As I understand your concepts I would agree that it is most helpful to consciously know that we are “selling ourselves” and to be able to choose as wisely as possible the “terms of sale”.
March 17, 2008 at 10:35 am
Doug
It’s amazing how this applies to my life. I am in a job I despise, yet I feel to leave it behind at this point in time would be financial suicide. There may come a point where I take that step, but not today. Tomorrow, perhaps.
March 17, 2008 at 12:48 pm
Pink
How interesting. Am working on this right now. I’ve given myself a deadline of three months hence…which is itself a selling of myself because I could, instead, do it NOW. But, I want to spend some time looking at what is next…what do I WANT to be next. What do I really care about and how can I spend the majority of my time (without retraining again) doing that
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pinks
March 17, 2008 at 3:44 pm
deweydjb
Ah, Spo, I SO don’t wanna hear another word about a prostitute, good or bad. CNN is over the moon because of one and I just want it to go away!
March 17, 2008 at 3:57 pm
DougT
I personally prefer the media prostitute.
March 17, 2008 at 7:13 pm
jason
“tells you to make a choice, not what choice to make”
Interesting.
March 17, 2008 at 7:53 pm
TR
Great post! Haven’t thought of the prostitute as an archetype before until now - brilliant…and a sacred one at that.
I have a job I like but it means working with “toxic” companies that I dislike - but, with the money I make from them I can work less (thus spending time on creative endeavors or community projects) and I am able to give money directly to the healthy charities I like . It’s a vicious quid-pro-quo circle and I struggle with it constantly as I bite the hand that feeds me.
March 18, 2008 at 6:12 am
"Joe"
Very helpful information, giving me insight into my life. I can see how I have “prostituted” myself by staying in the closet, deluding myself that I was keeping everybody happy. Now, I have come to see how I was in such denial that it was killing me: Slow Motion Suicide of the Soul.
The door is open, the light streams in. The journey continues toward the other side. Soon. Soon.
March 18, 2008 at 7:50 am
Mark H
That’s life, isn’t it? Negotiating from beginning to end………. Used car salesmen seem to learn that skill early on. Really, though I’m with Doug………media whores! Really, it’s true. I wish I had your entire blog in book form, with an index for reference….you know…..so I can read some thoughts at my whim. THANKS, as always.
March 18, 2008 at 8:00 am
Cliffie
Carolyn Myss says that everyone has an internal prostitute — not about selling power in this case but more about donating it. She relates the archetype to the historical sacred prostitutes in the temples of this or that god in the ancient world. Doing the nasty with one of these women — who I’m pretty sure called themselves priestesses, not hookers — was a direct blessing from the goddess involved. Which is why the ancient texts always point it out, in wonder or irritation, when the priestesses involved (like Vesta’s) are required to maintain their virginity.
March 19, 2008 at 8:43 pm
Daniel
Ooh, that’s good. And I believe, along with you, that in essence, everything in life is negotiated. But from what you say, perhaps I need to work with that archtype a little more, I let myself get stuck in crappy jobs way too much.