I was recently asked ‘Are you a story teller?” I had to pause, to first clarify what the inquisitor meant. By her definition, no, I am not a Storyteller. I tell a lot of stories, but I don’t do this for a living nor is it one of my main Archetypes of my psyche. However, it is a vital part of my psyche. Worse luck it isn’t more active.
The archetype of The Storyteller is an ancient one. Since the dawn of time mankind has used stories to entertain and explain things. Hearing the words ‘once upon a time” conjures up nostalgia of childhood memories of our elders telling us tales that were not true but contained Truth. Most of us never grow out of our need for stories. Savvy leaders know telling a story gets others’ attention far better than merely telling the facts.
I love stories. I recently wrote about ‘Star Wars’. For all its special effects it is merely another version of The Hero’s Journey. This is no accident. Mr. Lucas carefully planned it out this way, down to the now iconic opening:
“A long time ago in a galaxy far, far away”.
It sounds like a bedtime story.
I have plenty of memorized stories from my youth, and I have a handful of my own, and a few I think are mine but it turns out they are not.* Alas, Babylon! I don’t have an audience. I am like an eager actor with no stage. Long gone are the days when I was in Boy Scouts when I was called upon to tell tales by campfire (I wasn’t good at knots but I told a keen ghost story). The niblings are no longer interested in Uncle Spo’s tales. I want to wear a button “Ask me to tell you a story”.
People nowadays don’t seem as interested in stories, let alone adore The Story Teller. Mostly they want to talk about themselves or they have the attention span of a goldfish: they want you to get to the point. I may be one of The Last of The Mohicans (there’s a good story!) who relish sitting back and hearing someone tell a story. I wish my job gave me more time for such, for folks have many tales to tell.
It is no wonder I listen to a lot of podcasts like “Myths and Legends” and my book shelves are full up with fiction and folk tales and such. There’s nothing like a Saturday night at Heorot Johnson II for hearing The Board of Directors Here at Spo-reflections lay out a saga or an edda. **
One of the niceties of having a headful of stories is even when no ones wants to hear them, at any moment I can recall them for myself. Indeed, at life’s end, when I have few resources upon which to entertain myself, I only have to conjure up Bilbo Baggins or Jerome the Frog or Pippi Longstalking or even Odysseus (in a pinch) and I am comforted.
*Sometimes I catch myself telling a vignette that I think is personal, only to realize it was something that was told to me. Just hate when that happens.
**Slater-Wotan tells a fine yarn – provided he is not too deep in his cups. Herbert, on the other hand, bores us to tears with his ‘adventure stories’ in accounting.
30 comments
May 19, 2022 at 3:08 AM
David Godfrey
It is the season for starting student interns for the summer, I asked two of them this week, tell me about yourself, where you are from, where you are going?, and I got bupkis. Maybe two or three sentences, not even a full biography – one of them gave me a sentence about what he wants to be when he grows up. I was looking for storytellers, storytellers can think and write and communicate. We all have a lifetime of experiences, I have a hundred stories that start with I sat next to this person on a plane one time, 1000 stories that start with a built a house for this family, and about 12,000 that start with I had this client one time. Each one has a message. And the message told through the story enhances understanding and memory. You will never forget the story of the client who died from a fall down a flight of stairs. Or the house we built in 30 days.
May 19, 2022 at 7:02 AM
Urspo
This was excellent prose and reading. Good for you! I hope someone with the ability to tell a story shows character.
May 19, 2022 at 4:51 AM
Debra She Who Seeks
“Tell me a bedtime story” — that’s where it all starts! You’re right about storytellers needing an audience and sometimes that is scarce in our modern times for some people. The art you chose to illustrate this post is very evocative.
May 19, 2022 at 7:03 AM
Urspo
One of my regrets of never having children is I was so looking forward to being The Story Teller to my child and grandchildren. I’ve learned to be so with others when they are willing.
May 19, 2022 at 5:05 AM
Moving with Mitchell
SG and I both tend to be storytellers.
May 19, 2022 at 7:04 AM
Urspo
You two are fortunate fellows this way. Good for you two!
May 19, 2022 at 6:18 AM
larrymuffin
In the Arab and Persian Cultures I noticed how people love a good story and will hang on the every word. These are cultures which gave us great writers and storytellers.
May 19, 2022 at 7:04 AM
Urspo
Yes. It is no wonder the Tales of Scherezade strikes home the Sultan would have her stick around for the stories not the other things
May 19, 2022 at 6:37 AM
johnmichael42003
I love a good story…probably why I love The Moth hour!!
May 19, 2022 at 7:05 AM
Urspo
For some time I’ve been meaning to listen to Moth. Perhaps this weekend.
May 19, 2022 at 7:30 AM
Brian Dean Powers
I don’t do very well when I write stories. Stories, plots, development, characterization, they don’t come easily for me. I know my writing is competent, but story telling is a different talent, and it’s one with which I struggle. I have no difficulty with poetry, which is another different talent, and I suspect I could have been a good technical writer. Writing and telling stories is an ability some have, and some don’t, I think.
May 19, 2022 at 9:23 AM
Urspo
I have never written poetry (although I like a good poem!) I imagine writing poetry is a very different talent than writing a story. Sort of like cuisine? cooking vs. baking that sort of thing.
May 19, 2022 at 7:40 AM
Robzilla, Native Of Slam Diego
As I get older, I don’t find I have too much time for stories. On the other hand, I enjoyed that Night Vale podcast while I was unemployed.
May 19, 2022 at 9:24 AM
Urspo
Welcome to Night Vale is a good podcast for stories as it is one long story or a fantastical town.
May 19, 2022 at 7:43 AM
BadNoteB
Not only can this lad thread a needle to create the fabulous designer shirt collection; today he confesses a fondness for spinning a yarn!
May 19, 2022 at 9:24 AM
Urspo
Oh well done!
May 19, 2022 at 8:37 AM
DwightW.
When I was a child , a story teller was someone who didn’t tell the truth. I know we had tons of literature and poetry as children so I assume those were told by a storyteller. Language is power.
May 19, 2022 at 9:26 AM
Urspo
“Stop telling stories!” I heard that too. I thought it was an appalling misuse of the words. Thems who tell stories tell Truth in nontruthful forms. I distrusted adults who didn’t know the difference between a lie and a story.
May 19, 2022 at 10:11 AM
fallenstarstories
I have been assured by many elders that we are all story tellers. That’s what makes us human. (And after reading your blog, I would say you are a marvelous story teller.)
May 19, 2022 at 12:39 PM
Urspo
Thank you!
I wrote a few nonsensical tales and posted them here – this must be many years ago – I should pull them up and repost them to see if the Spo-fans like them.
May 19, 2022 at 11:34 AM
Old Lurker
I feel you are quite the storyteller. I am reminded of the time you asked Someone what to write about, only to receive the harsh retort the truth for once? Rumor has it that you sometimes embellish mundane details for the sake of a more compelling story. (I of course do not believe these scandalous slanderous claims one bit.)
Your niblings may no longer be interested in story time with Uncle Dr Spo, but do not some of them have grand-niblings now?
May 19, 2022 at 12:41 PM
Urspo
Telling stories isn’t the same as telling the news. Sometimes the latter uses story form to get the audience to listen but the form should not be confused with the contents.
May 19, 2022 at 12:27 PM
jefferyrn
I am often accused of telling a story. I like to embellish things to add interest and memorability. My dad was a good story teller.
May 19, 2022 at 12:42 PM
Urspo
Most people (I hope) can tell when someone is ‘telling a story’. I think of one in Joyce’s “The Dead” where the protagonist is telling about his grandfather and horse. “Oh!” says the listeners “You’re telling a story!” but they say it in mirth to convey they know it isn’t ‘true’ per se but are enjoying the flair.
May 19, 2022 at 12:57 PM
Will Jay
As Me Didion said “We tell ourselves stories in orderto live.”
May 19, 2022 at 12:59 PM
Urspo
Good quote; I like it. How dull life would be without stories. “Hard Times” by Dickens illustrates this point.
May 19, 2022 at 1:00 PM
Will Jay
Correction: Ms Didion wrote…
May 19, 2022 at 4:50 PM
Pipistrello
I do enjoy your flair with words and would be well pleased to see some of your nonsense tales about these pages. I’m having a mini-mania for surreal writing at the moment, so the nuttier the better!
May 19, 2022 at 7:59 PM
Robert
Since signing up with Scribd my reading of stories has sky rocketed, loving it 😎
May 20, 2022 at 6:03 PM
Richard Portman
That was a nice post about stories. I don’t think I’m a story teller either, but sometimes it just happens. When i was a starving young man i used to do chores for some of the older people around here in exchange for money. Those people had some stories. Nobody even sounds like them anymore. They had some good stories. Now i am getting old, and they are all gone, but some of the things they said still stick with me. I didn’t agree with everything they said, not at all, but it was an education.