Note: I was surprised what came out as a wrote this. I thought to erase and edit but decided not to. Spo
I don’t have many distinct memories of the July 4 holiday other than us kids got to run around in the twilight with sparkles and sometimes there were car-trips to fireworks display. I grew up in Detroit area. Detroit and Windsor would combine their 1 July and 4 July fireworks display for an evening between these two dates, depending on convenience. My mother’s hometown had fireworks too, but seldom on 4 July but one the closest Saturday to the date.* Celebrating a holiday not on its proper day, for the sake of convenience, offended me as a child and it still does. May as well do New Years Eve on the first Saturday in January.
I have no plans for the day, not even sparklers. I should have a look-see at Uncle Albertsons if they still make such things. This weekend I’ve seen various impromptu curbside tents go up selling fireworks. They all have warning signs of ‘no smoking; fireworks! ‘ which sounds humorous as there is no smoking already in grocery stores. I wonder who buys these things as there is a general belief among sensible people these things are dangerous and tend to blow off fingers etc. SIL #3 hates working the E.R. the weekend of July 4 for this reason. Bubbas come in with injuries, agitated and uncooperative as they are often drunk and embarrassed by their seemingly lack of manliness to handle fireworks, their God-given right.
There is sometimes a firework display to the west of La Casa de Spo; I can just see them if I stand in the pool in a certain area. Sometimes these are canceled when there is a high risk of fire, which is often. In the past I would make ribs or something but frankly I don’t have the desire to do so. I suppose the Trump Party will turn the day into a fascist-like celebration of removing independence of others, but then they don’t consider anyone other than themselves as true countrymen, so depriving others of choice and liberty doesn’t give them any qualms.
Harper isn’t one of these dogs that become agitated from fireworks. As she is getting deaf, this is less likely with each passing Independence Day. What agitates me is the growing ritual of nearby neighbors shooting off guns not fireworks. I wonder how many injuries from ‘friendly fire’ arise on this night.
It all makes me think we were better off staying subjects of The Queen. I vote for this over the judges and senators who rule now with more might and less majesty.
*In western Michigan there once were a lot of conservative Dutch descendants to discouraged parties and fireworks on Sundays. I don’t know if they still disallow Sunday holidays so as not to offend these types.
47 comments
July 4, 2022 at 2:08 AM
Woody in Ohio
A quiet 4th of July to you. I think your blog of the day is just fine. I agree wholeheartedly on the TP comment. I think more should say how they feel and so be the consequence of this action. To thine own self be true. Earlier I made a comment in Sean’s blog about the atmosphere and the social climate. Kind sir, have a nice day and stay just the way you are. You are a treasure to me. Last year on this date I was noticed something was wrong with my leg and my breathing. I barely was able to dial for help. I woke up 14 days later having survived a serious attack of blood clots that my body was producing. I had a stroke which you would never know unless I told you. I am left with cognitive issues. I also keep producing clots and will be on Eliquis permanently. The pain in my right leg is hard to bear but that is better than the alternative. It is only with the help of my psychiatrist that I found the strength and will to continue on. Your’ is a noble profession for which I have the utmost respect. Today I celebrate freedom and life. Adieu.
July 4, 2022 at 6:03 AM
Urspo
What splendid prose! Thank you for sharing. When you have a life-threatening illness it sometimes makes all in perspective better.
July 4, 2022 at 3:46 AM
DwightW.
I remember a perfect Fourth of July in Manhattan, Macys Fireworks, My first time at the Statue of Liberty and 3 Broadway Shows. The Empire State Building , the Metropolitan Museum , Rockefeller Center and St. Patrick’s Cathedral. It was a lot. It was Grand!
July 4, 2022 at 6:04 AM
Urspo
That sounds lovely! Something out of the movie “Manhattan”
July 4, 2022 at 3:25 PM
DwightW.
Well it was actually a four day weekend with lots of taxis
July 4, 2022 at 4:09 AM
Debbie W.
A most enjoyable post! As children, we stayed home on July 4th. Our mother preferred to avoid the uncertainty of trekking to some unfamiliar place, full of unknown crowds, and unexpected activities. I didn’t mind, and treasured the opportunity to read and watching a movie or two, but I secretly wondered if I was missing out on anything. As an adult, I went to a few fireworks displays, and realized I hadn’t missed out on anything as a child. Now I’m back to reading and
movies on July 4th, as was my childhood ritual. Wishing you a peaceful and enjoyable 4th.
July 4, 2022 at 6:04 AM
Urspo
And to you!
July 4, 2022 at 4:28 AM
David Godfrey
The condo does a parade – anyone can take part – I thought about loading the convertible with sheep, and blaring God Save the Queen – but the neighbors wouldn’t get what I was trying to say. We are home and quiet. A complicated year. My Tuesday post is about 4th of Julys past.
July 4, 2022 at 6:05 AM
Urspo
I am woefully behind on my blog reading ( I fell asleep ) today I vow to make my rounds and read’em
July 4, 2022 at 4:32 AM
Hugh W. Roberts
The fourth of July is like any other non-holiday day here in the UK, but we have Guy Fawkes Day in November when all the fireworks come out. I always enjoyed fireworks when I was much younger, but as I have grown older, I don’t like them and all the noise they make.
Whatever you do today, have a great day.
July 4, 2022 at 6:06 AM
Urspo
Often Yankees secretly envy the Brits in their goings-on and their shenanigans. Guy Fawkes Day is actually catching on here in some communities – can you imagine? I suppose any excuse to build a bonfire and blow things up.
July 4, 2022 at 8:21 AM
Hugh W. Roberts
We’d have to wait until at least 10pm to have fireworks in July in the UK because it doesn’t get dark until then. November is good, though, because it gets dark by 5pm.
July 4, 2022 at 4:37 AM
Autolycus
As you remark, Canadian royalists have fireworks on 1 July; over here in London we do it on or around 5 November (Gunpowder Plot and all that: and it usually coincides with the Hindu Diwali festival, which is big in some places) – and New Year’s Eve. And round here, someone or other’s birthday, or weddings, or whatever. But gunfire salutes are reserved for special units of the military.
July 4, 2022 at 6:07 AM
Urspo
I am looking forward to my own personal Guy Fawkes celebration when I plan to set fire to several public figures in effigy.
July 4, 2022 at 5:58 AM
usstorageunit
The little town I live in was once a Methodist retreat from the big city of Philadelphia PA. They still do not do celebrations on Sundays. Truck or treating gets moved to Saturday, if the 31 October falls on a Sunday. Independence Day activities include a 5 mile race, a large parade, and fireworks at the lake. But not if the fourth is on a Sunday. Nope.
July 4, 2022 at 6:08 AM
Urspo
A testimony! There are some ‘not on Sunday” places after all. I wonder if there will be a surge of such display ? I cannot imagine businesses liking the concept.
July 4, 2022 at 6:05 AM
Debra She Who Seeks
Canada Day fireworks are always held right on July 1st. I can hear them while I’m lying in bed. That’s excitement enough for me these days.
July 4, 2022 at 6:09 AM
Urspo
These days that’s all the excitement I have in bed too, apart from a face lick from the pooch.
July 4, 2022 at 10:01 AM
Old Lurker
One would hope that other members of your household administer face licks from time to time?
July 4, 2022 at 6:36 AM
Old Lurker
No fireworks? No BBQ? Are you sure you are patriotic enough to be an American? Keep up with that talk and you could get your citizenship revoked.
July 4, 2022 at 7:54 AM
Urspo
Let us hope so.
July 4, 2022 at 7:08 AM
Robzilla, Native Of Slam Diego
I wish I could have a quiet 4th. There will be a view of a couple of nearby shows, but then we have neighbors across the way that love to fire illegal fireworks well after 10pm. Those idiots live right on the edge of a canyon, so I’m waiting for the inevitable brush fire that could result from their folly.
July 4, 2022 at 7:54 AM
Urspo
Oh the folly.
July 4, 2022 at 7:41 AM
Glenda
Nothing but sadness for our 4th. Everything cancelled due to the slain police officers and police dog a few nights ago here in Floyd County Ky. What is there to celebrate anymore?
July 4, 2022 at 7:56 AM
Urspo
Indeed a good question.
I was recently reminded when the Declaration of Independence was published in the U.K. the reaction was ‘what hypocrites, to say they want independence with one hand and enslave men with the other hand.
July 4, 2022 at 8:36 AM
Linda Practical Parsimony
I think our 4th celebrations as a child were hit or miss. I remember sparklers when I was very small and some 1″ fireworks when I was about 8 or so. Very occasionally, we saw a firework display. I love the idea of fireworks. But, when I see them, I love them. I will no longer go to a display, just watch from the front door…lol. I did travel 50 miles every 4th for 20 years to block party in Birmingham and Thunder on the Mountain.
July 4, 2022 at 10:24 AM
Urspo
I remember a few times being somewhere where one could watch from the ‘front porch’ as it were. This was a pleasure.
July 4, 2022 at 9:15 AM
Moving with Mitchell
I think the UK, too, has plenty to be ashamed of (as does any country on closer inspection). Still, look how well things turned out for Canada.
July 4, 2022 at 10:24 AM
Urspo
Indeed so. It is hoped we can all look at ourselves and not be blind to the problems at hand.
July 4, 2022 at 10:04 AM
spwilcen
It’s a delicate balance. How much beer money can you dedicate to purchasing fireworks? I admire the Bubbas and Cooters who make these sacrifices. Yupper, in the not-so-deep south, there are still yo-yos who discharge weapons on July 4, Christmas and New Years. Same kind of guys who dunk a whole frozen turkey into a tub of boiling peanut oi for “fried turkey.” They walk among us. Good read here.
July 4, 2022 at 10:26 AM
Urspo
Showing ones manliness is one thing but doing stupid things is another.
I’ve been told many times the fried turkey technique makes for a dry tasteless birth.
July 4, 2022 at 10:36 AM
spwilcen
Well, here’s another opinion. Properly [but so very rarely] done, fried turkey is tasty and juicy. Replace Gram’s traditional oven-baked bird? Not for my money. Taste. You want your peanuts boiled, baked, dry roasted, or honey glazed?
July 4, 2022 at 10:57 AM
BadNoteB
As a young lad, every 4th holiday was spent camping at Lake Tahoe, waterskiing and sunburning to an alpine crisp. Bundled like Nanook Of The North against the cold mountain air, everyone would pile in the boat shortly before dusk for the half hour ride across the lake to Stateline on the south shore for the fireworks display. We’d anchor about a mile from shore and marvel at the double treat of the spectacular aerial display mirrored on the ebony surface of the lake below. The memory remains vividly clear though the tradition was abandoned around 12 years of age due to overcrowding of the destination and outrageously rude and dangerous behavior of fellow visitors.
Today will be a quiet pig out for two at our house. Two recipes of ribs – Hoisin and traditional BBQ – will complete their overnight seasoning in a couple of hours while hickory chips are measured and ready for soaking. With four slabs awaiting, we’ll stock the freezer with leftovers ribs to last thru Labor Day at least. I made a potato salad yesterday (reminding myself why that pain-in-the-ass project is a once a year event), with anal retentive dices and cubes that had Julia Child smiling from above all afternoon. LOML isn’t a fan so I’ll make do with a doctored can of B&M baked beans. A couple ears of Mexican street corn and a huge slice of Red White & Blue cream pie to complete the meal and we’ll be stuffed and napping before the firecrackers begin throughout the hood.
Margaret Renkl wrote a wonderfully uplifting article in the NYT this week that may help restore your enthusiasm for today’s holiday. “The American Flag Belongs To Me, Too, and This Year I’m Taking It Back”. Check it out if you can; it’s worth the time! And Happy 4th to La Casa de Spo!
July 4, 2022 at 11:22 AM
Urspo
Good for Ms. Renki!
One of the more success plans of the nasty right is to ‘take the flag’ as it were and accuse anyone not like them as traitors and not true American, thus separating and demonizing the other as not worth the countries welfare.
July 4, 2022 at 5:36 PM
janiejunebug
Southerners love their fireworks, so I’m sure every ER in our city will be busy tonight. Franklin and Penelope do not like the noise. They are medicated to help them ignore it and have not budged an inch for a couple of hours now. New Year’s Eve is also very bad here. That is the night of the guns, as it is some sort of tradition to fire a gun to welcome the coming year, and too bad for the people who get hit.
Love,
Janie
July 4, 2022 at 7:07 PM
Urspo
I like the tradition of saying “Rabbit”. Better luck and less noise.
July 4, 2022 at 7:58 PM
Ron
I too never “got” the fascination with firecrackers (too damn noisy) and fireworks displays. First time I saw a fireworks display I had a “Is that all their is?” reaction. In the past we always lived in a neighborhood where some jackass dad trying to impress others would set off those annoying firecrackers. So thankful we live in a neighborhood now sans those jackass dads. Right now it is Fourth of July evening and I hear nary a firecracker and that is just fine with me.
July 5, 2022 at 7:11 AM
Urspo
Last night we heard what sounds like public fireworks going off in the distance and some closer noise of someone setting off some. Mercifully there was no shooting.
July 5, 2022 at 6:34 AM
Chris N
i remember getting sparklers as a child. One of our first dates( with B my husband) was to West Point( yes that West Point) for the fireworks. We sat on the pier and looked out over the water( there may have been some hanky panky going on too). But we took our kids EVERY year to the 4th of July Parades here. Lots of candy was thrown back then from the fire trucks. Then we would have a picnic in the park and wait for the fireworks. Now, I’m in bed by 9pm.
July 5, 2022 at 7:11 AM
Urspo
Those are nice memories. Thank you for sharing them.
July 6, 2022 at 7:20 AM
Steven
A well-written piece given what many around the country experience. And to make matters worse, the shooting that happened in nearby Highland Park during the Independence Day Parade. All nearby communities canceled their fireworks that evening in respect to what happened.
July 6, 2022 at 7:57 AM
Urspo
I didn’t go online much this day so only later I heard about the shooting.
I heard fireworks/shootings in the neighborhood, so apparently these were not canceled out of respect.
July 6, 2022 at 11:59 AM
Sassybear
It was not a day of celebration for us, given the current direction the US is going. Our neighborhood was rampant with fireworks that night, so we stayed inside where it was safe. The streets are now riddled with firework debris which no one seems to feel obligated to clean up. Sigh….
July 6, 2022 at 6:17 PM
Urspo
People who litter; I have no patience with these piglet types.
July 9, 2022 at 7:36 PM
Robert
Is 4th July the actual date of American independence?
July 10, 2022 at 8:41 AM
Urspo
Actually no. A fine trick question for Yanks it so ask them ‘when did the colones declare independence?” The actual answer is 2 July. This is when it was voted and resolved. Indeed, one of the signers wrote later “the 2nd of July will be a day of great celebration” or words of that sort. The resolution took two days to get it written/back from the printers, and ‘finished’ on 4 July. Which is why there is a 4 not 2 on the document.
July 10, 2022 at 8:53 PM
Robert
Thank you 😊