The Board of Directors Here at Spo-reflections say my latest entries have too much ‘shrink stuff” and not enough shouting and throwing of projectiles. They’re not wrong but then again if I did the later they would be remonstrating I should lay off the hand axes and write something serious for Odin’s sake. There is no pleasing them really. This makes me wonder what happened to my hand ax. I remember buying it when visiting a medieval torture museum in Germany.* It came as a set with a rod with heavy metal ball the size of lemon on the end of a chain. The ball had spikes all over it like a sea urchin. I brought both weapons home in my carry-on luggage can you imagine? I suspect one of my brothers used them during a Dungeons and Dragons game and forgot to bring them home.
I like to go shopping for things when on holiday. I don’t take many photos but I make a point to buy some knickknacks to remind me of the trip. Mugs are always a good choice as they are labeled such and they are used often. As I write this I am sipping from my ‘Receiver Coffee Company’ coffee mug, which I purchased when visiting chums on Prince Edward Island. Seeing it makes me remember my visit there and all that happened. I used to buy fabric to make a shirt to commemorate the trip but local fabric stores have become rarities, worse luck.
The accumulation of bricolage gets tedious after awhile as to where to put all these items. Discarding them is difficult as it feels like throwing out a memory. I am now more careful towards what I purchase as a keepsake. Small things are better, like buttons or jewelry items; these work nicely. T-shirts are not good things as they wear out or I outgrow them (just hate that). I used to collect interesting-looking rocks but after a while I can’t tell which rock went with what trip.
I probably should give up this system for I have enough mugs to fill a diner and I don’t need more ‘dust collectors’ as Grandmother Angela used to call such items on the shelf. I could try taking photos but I know from experience I never look at them. Perhaps I am at the age I now can just go somewhere and appreciate the experience without having to find a figurine to hold the memory for me. That feels ephemeral but isn’t that Life anyway?
Does anyone need some mugs? I have heaps.
When you go on a trip, do you take photos? Buy souvenirs? Do you come home with precious items or a suitcase full of dirty duds rather?
*I’m not kidding or exaggerating.
31 comments
September 20, 2022 at 7:41 AM
Debra She Who Seeks
I tend to buy useful, practical, “branded” items as souvenirs which will precisely wear out in time and be discarded (solves the accumulation issue) such as hand towels, placemats, t-shirts, greeting cards, etc. BUT NO MUGS! They hang around forever and take up too much space.
September 20, 2022 at 8:20 AM
Urspo
Like my men.
September 21, 2022 at 4:00 AM
Richard Portman
l always
have a big problem with English, my native language. When i see BUT NO MUGS! i think about the mugs in my life.
Next, i think about mugshots and their faces. After i am done with that, i try to remember that mug is just a word for face in my dialect . After thinking all this, i will try to take 40 winks, or maybe a catnap.
Mugs that we drink out of are always useful.
September 20, 2022 at 7:47 AM
DwightW.
I vote with the I have enough souvenirs, and might buy a new toaster or vacuum cleaner. But ours are working fine. We have plenty of dust catchers
September 20, 2022 at 8:21 AM
Urspo
I think your response will be the norm reply among the Spo-fans.
September 20, 2022 at 7:59 AM
Moving with Mitchell
I used to buy, buy, buy. Now it’s more photos, gifts for friends (mostly their kids), and not much else… usually.
September 20, 2022 at 8:29 AM
rjjs8878
I take pictures but no longer buy souvenirs. I may buy a shirt or two if I happen upon a clothing store I like that doesn’t have a presence at home.
September 20, 2022 at 8:38 AM
Urspo
Quite sensible of you. I strive to be more like this way.
September 20, 2022 at 8:37 AM
Urspo
I confess whenever I see you traveling to Norway I think of all the Ibsens and Trolls I could pick up there
September 20, 2022 at 8:42 AM
Old Lurker
I think taking a few pictures and posting them to your blog would serve as a good set of keepsakes. Entries of past vacations are a treasure trove. Aren’t you glad you took some pictures for this entry? https://sporeflections.wordpress.com/2017/02/22/urspo-gets-married/
September 20, 2022 at 9:08 AM
Urspo
For souvenirs I got I got a gold ring and a toilet plunger too. I’m not joking or exaggerating.
September 20, 2022 at 9:47 AM
Old Lurker
You got a tiara too! But the pictures were still worthwhile.
It is charming how you have to disclaim that you are not joking or exaggerating. Clearly Someone’s editorializing has gotten to you.
September 20, 2022 at 9:41 AM
Debbie W.
When I travel, I try to visit small local charity shops. Most times it is easy to find such a shop with an online search. NOT a chain like Goodwill or Salvation Army, but a shop that sells used items to benefit a small local charity, or a shop run by “church ladies”. I enjoy chatting with the volunteer workers, who are usually lovely people. Then I buy a small “preciously owned” souvenir item or two, be it tea towel, mug, jewelry, clothing, etc. I feel good about helping the local charity, and have a nice memory of chatting with some good folks as well.
September 20, 2022 at 10:54 AM
Urspo
Good for you!
Now you have brought this to my attention, I do this too. I have a shirt I bought at a local charity-run store when I visited London Bridge. When I see the shirt I think of that trip.
September 20, 2022 at 10:29 AM
BadNoteB
Speaking of fabulous souvenirs and mementos, what became of those stylish cocktail glasses you were just going to curl up and die rather than leave Palm Springs without? The ones you had to be shamelessly unsubtle in hinting to Someone what a perfect future prize they might make for the perfect trophy spouse – like you, perhaps. Remember?
The last souvenir item purchased in our house was on a visit to Australia several years ago. Who could possibly resist a genuine kangaroo scrotum bottle opener?
I have gotten very into taking photos with the iPhone on vacations, weekend jaunts, or even midweek trips to Uncle Albertsons if I encounter something of interest along the way. Never selfies as I detest that entire concept but the photo log is great for overcoming those memory deficiencies discussed in yesterdays posting.
September 20, 2022 at 10:56 AM
Urspo
You have a very good memory.
No, I never got them worse luck. I have a list in my phone named ‘wants”, in case someone or Someone should ever ask me for prize suggestions. In his defense I recall he did look for them on line last Christmas but they weren’t for sale that way. I believe next time I go to PS I will buy them myself. If they are not there anymore it will be a case of regret.
September 20, 2022 at 7:56 PM
Will Jay
Rather, if they are not there or no longer available congratulate yourself on your thrift! As long as you don’t engage in the Alice Trillin art of compensatory saving, you will be OK (my apologies, I cannot recall Mr. Trillin’s essay in which he describes this phenomenon).
September 20, 2022 at 11:06 AM
David Godfrey
I always take photos, doing so is a part of my being. I try to buy something small and memorable. Small wood boxes, small ceramics. I am still sorting out an tossing kitchen items as we unpack, some mugs are headed to the local charity shop run by the hospital ladies.
September 20, 2022 at 12:15 PM
Urspo
Lucky you to have some nearby hospital ladies (or someone like them) to take your discards! I wish I had some of these; I could fill their bins with my discards.
September 20, 2022 at 1:13 PM
Dark Robzilla
I used to buy souvenirs, but I stopped awhile back. In hindsight, all they did was take up space. I don’t have the storage or display space for new things as it is.
September 20, 2022 at 4:05 PM
Urspo
Yes, I am coming to your conclusion. Maybe this is one reason why we never go anywhere any more. It’s a blunt way to avoid buying things.
September 20, 2022 at 2:10 PM
Lori Hawkins
I collect postcards from states, places, countries that I’ve visited. I keep them all in a nice box so I can go through them from time to time.
September 20, 2022 at 4:06 PM
Urspo
This seem quite sensible. They serve as memories; they aren’t expensive; they don’t take up space. Best yet they are all in a box for quick browsing. I wished I had thought of this.
September 20, 2022 at 7:10 PM
Richard Portman
Souvenirs are great! I still have a few.
Yes they add clutter, but …
September 20, 2022 at 8:28 PM
Urspo
But… they remind us of a good time. 🙂
September 20, 2022 at 10:44 PM
Linda Practical Parsimony
I only have a few mugs, a few more than I need since I might drink hot chocolate once a month, if then, and only three or four months out of the year. I bought a ring for a souvenir, best souvenir I ever got. I take lots of pictures and have since I was ten and asked for a camera for Christmas. I don’t tend to buy souvenirs to have one, just something I need and can use.
September 21, 2022 at 8:36 AM
Urspo
A proper camera (I am told) still beats what’s available on the iphones. I hope you get that camera.
September 21, 2022 at 1:05 AM
Hugh W. Roberts
In the late 1980s, I worked in the souvenirs department at Selfridges. I used to think much of it was junk, but some of that stuff is now worth hundreds of pounds at auction. You may have some rare pieces, so be careful when dusting them.
September 21, 2022 at 8:38 AM
Urspo
That is a nice way of looking at them. 🙂 It’s hard to imagine my collection of kitsch is of value. One exception may be the green dino soap from Sinclair. I should look it up some time.
September 23, 2022 at 6:59 PM
Frogdancer Jones
Christmas tree decorations.
After my trips to Europe, the UK and North Korea, I have the most interesting Christmas tree on the planet!
September 24, 2022 at 1:26 PM
Urspo
Christmas ornaments are very good souvenirs, yes. I have heaps from various places too.