Today’s Wednesday’s Ws is dedicated to Lisa Loring, who played Wednesday Addams in the TV series. She died earlier this week. The character has evolved over time and her Journey is a fascinating one, worth a blog entry some day.
What’s top of my mind: my relationship. I met Someone on 31 January 1997 – that’s 26 years ago. Can you imagine? The fact he’s stuck around despite my many faults is amazing; the fact how any two people can stay together this long is amazing. Let’s hope he doesn’t give up on me.
Where I’ve been: The weight rooms – when I can. Lately the two gyms where I go have seen a surge of new faces in the common category of young Hispanic men in their 20s (or younger) in groups of 4-5. They tend to all converge on a machine or bench. So far as I can tell they mostly stand around and gab or look at their cellphones – a lot more than actually working out. I wonder if they are members of a sports team or perhaps they are in a chorus. They look too thin for the one and too awkward for the other. Either way I wish they would scram as they get in my way says the old man.
Where I’m going: The Hyundai dealership and The Phoenix Symphony. Now there’s a couple! The Elantra needs some sort of ‘time for a tune up’ based on miles (I forget which) and the Symphony is playing some Mendelssohn.
What I’m watching: Scotland, PA. What a hoot! This version of “Macbeth” set in a small town in the Midwest in the 70s. The McBeths kill off their boss Duncan, the owner of Duncan’s diner, and make it their own. What a hoot! The 70s clothes and music is worth the price of admission.
What I’m reading: The mystery of the singing serpent. This is another mystery in the “Alfred Hitchcock and the three investigators” series. What’s charming about these tomes is the villains are always apprehended and sent to jail and all is well. Mercifully there is no shooting.
What I’m listening to: ‘Let’s play Hnefatafl.‘ The Board of Directors Here at Spo-reflections gave me at Yule a Viking chess set and I’ve yet to learn how to play it. On The Tube of Yous a couple of chappies (who sort of look like board members) show how it’s done. The goal is to get the king (the tall fellow in the middle) out to one of the corners without being captured. Jolly good fun! I hope I can get Someone (or somebody like him) to play it with me. I’m not going to try a game with The-You-Know-Who as they play for high stakes like livestock or ring fingers.
What I’m eating: Grapefruit. Hot puppies! It’s that time of year! All the citrus trees in the neighborhood put out at the same time and everyone has massive amounts of oranges, lemons, and grapefruit. Sacks of the stuff are set out curbside for anyone to please take some. Lovely Grapefruit! These are my favorite and there are heaps. I will eat one every day until they are gone. They do a number on my blood pressure medication so I can cut back the dose for a while.
Who needs a good slap: GOP politicians. I realize this is low hanging fruit for there is no end to their nasty moves. The one presently burning my bacon is proposed legislature to forbid drag queens to be around/in the sight of children. This being done on the usual hysteria ‘save our children” emotions but it is really about mind control and suppression. I give them credit: this approach always works. There is zero evidence of men in drag molesting or abducting children. There is no legislature addressing real threats to children like white men with guns.
On my 1-5 scale, I give these sorts 4 slaps; for thems who believe this rubbish,5 slaps. Learn your history people! This is how tyrants take over!
Who gets a fist bump: My Good Morning Meme mates. Many of them (the dears!) are returning my near-daily good morning memes with memes of their own or with a photo from their neck of the woods. Sometimes they write a bit what’s happening in their lives that day. It makes my morning bright to hear from them.
What I’m planning: Several appointments. In February I see The Good Dentist and The Good Doctor. Hector, Lord of Yards, is scheduled to trim the trees and sweep up the scorpions. Someone is in negotiations with a Mr. J. Pollack to paint the exterior of La Casa de Spo before the HOA does something to rival The Board of Directors Here at Spo-reflections in a losing game of Hnefatafl. Oh the horror.
What’s making me smile: My stomach and my backside. It’s only four weeks with The Personal Trainer but I am already seeing some progress. I am down 1.5 kilos in weight. My stomach is flattening and yesterday I saw some outline of the rectus abdominus muscles. My backside is becoming callipygian. I am pleased as Punch. Take that young Hispanic men in their 20s!
40 comments
February 1, 2023 at 3:29 AM
Moving with Mitchell
Those Viking game pieces are wonderful pieces of art. Congrats on 26 years! Glad you stuck around for someone, too. He’s lucky to have you. Those gaggles of young guys that hang out together at one machine for upwards of an hour drive me crazy. Next in line are the ones who get engrossed in their mobile phones between sets and stay just as long.
February 1, 2023 at 6:48 AM
Urspo
These youngsters then hang out in the locker room sink areas talking and taking photos.
February 1, 2023 at 3:50 AM
DwightW.
That you care whether you have a hot ass amuses me, your gym should have an age limit, just yell at them “get off my lawn” .Grapefruit is verboten with so many medicines, I avoid it. Congratulations on putting your relationship at the top of the good things going on. I am indifferent on February,I especially dislike Valentines 💝 Day. As a child it wasn’t required to give every child in class a valentine, I was the new kid more than once. I still despise it. That is all!
February 1, 2023 at 6:54 AM
Urspo
I think this year I would like to do something for Valentine’s Day if only a mawkish card or a box of sweets.
February 1, 2023 at 5:53 AM
David Godfrey
Happy February 1st. Love lasts, another 26 to go.
February 1, 2023 at 6:54 AM
Urspo
I will settle for 15.
February 1, 2023 at 6:55 AM
Bob
Happy Anniversary! Cheers to the next 26!
February 1, 2023 at 7:26 AM
Urspo
thank you and cheers to you too!
February 1, 2023 at 6:57 AM
Debra She Who Seeks
Congrats to you and Someone for 26 years together!
February 1, 2023 at 7:26 AM
Urspo
Despite of ourselves.
February 1, 2023 at 8:12 AM
Old Lurker
It sounds as if a personal trainer is a good investment for you. However, we shall require photographic evidence of these callipygian developments.
Surely the herds of 20something gym-goers provide pleasant scenery for you as you lift your weights? Do they refer to you as “Papi”?
Perhaps the next mystery the Three Investigators should tackle is “The Mystery of the Fabulist GOP Drag Queen”. I imagine there are other Republican mysteries that could also be Investigated.
February 1, 2023 at 8:20 AM
Urspo
Now who is going to take that photo I wonder?
The 20yo are not pleasant scenery; they are a nuisance. On the whole their chatter/phone use (and lack of manners) is quite a turn off. There is no touch of Tiberius here, thank you very much.
I think the next mystery is Mystery of the shrinking house. I don’t remember this one. I remembered the singing snake as it had some horror element to it.
February 1, 2023 at 9:34 AM
Old Lurker
I suppose you could ask one of the 20somethings to take a photo or two. But I have also seen artful shots on Fearsome’s blog involving mirrors. You are a creative fellow; I am sure you can figure something out.
February 1, 2023 at 11:01 AM
BadNoteB
Just guessing, but I’d bet the 20somethings already have photos of Grumpy Sexy Poppa Bear With The Callipygian Backside on their camera rolls they would gladly share if asked nicely… Alternately, “Barba Temible” may be a revealing search string. 😉
February 1, 2023 at 11:11 PM
Richard
Old lurker, did we not tell you the rest of the story? Were you sleeping, or tending the herds?
I think you must have been been abused or treated badly.
That is the only way i can understand why you require photos of Callipygian developments. You are not the only one who speaks book greek.
Meanwhile, i would like some advice about how to blend in and keep going.
February 1, 2023 at 9:58 AM
Robzilla
Congrats on the anniversary!
I don’t understand those politicians. The worst thing that can happen at a drag show is a Republican shows up with an AR-15. No, that’s not a joke. Sadly, that’s reality.
I would love to be there when you scream at those lads, “Get off my weight bench!”
February 1, 2023 at 11:51 AM
Urspo
Happily at the gym people are polite that if you asks someone can I work through or how many more reps do you have, everyone hurries along or lets you work through. The beardless youths are not exception; they would hurry up if I actually asked. Rather I do something else.
February 1, 2023 at 10:21 AM
BadNoteB
Happy First Date-iversary to you and Someone! 26 years seems a long time only when you stop to count – otherwise it just day after day of conjugal bliss. How convenient to remember each year with the occasion falling on National Hot Chocolate Day and National Dark Chocolate Eve! I thought it unfortunate our FDiversary is April Fools Day and was certain of fate against us to subsequently discover April 1 is also National Soylent Green Day… How romantic can one get, right? Yet we’ve been pranking, decomposing and conjugaling together for 24 years this year and, so far as I know, are looking forward to the next 24. True love seems funny that way.
Thank you for the slaps to the drag queen haters. May their HBO subscriptions get eternally stuck on reruns of “We’re Here”! The whole thing makes me just want to dig out my Anita Bryant T-shirt and go parade through Uncle Albertsons or something. Deja vu all over again!
February 1, 2023 at 11:53 AM
Urspo
I have hope that drag queens are not ones to suffer fools or take crap from others. I’ve seen countless shows in which some fool straight man is guffawing or making comments only to have the queens make short work of him. It’s almost painful to witness.
February 1, 2023 at 2:42 PM
Gigi Rambles
Congrats! 26 years is nothing to sneeze at.
Speaking of Wednesday Addams – have you seen Wednesday on Netflix? It is such fun.
February 1, 2023 at 4:24 PM
Urspo
I am 3/4 way through the series. I am intrigued by this version of Wednesday compared to her previous incarnations.
February 1, 2023 at 3:21 PM
Glenda
It’s odd young guys just hanging around at the gym. you are so lucky to have fresh fruit just waiting on the street. Hope you have many more years of the good relationship.
February 1, 2023 at 4:25 PM
Urspo
Trouble with dudes in groups at the gym is they tend to talk a lot and not focus on the work outs. Probably this is the few times they can chat so good for them but bad for folks there to work out.
Thank you for the well wishes.
February 1, 2023 at 4:15 PM
Jennifer Barlow
I envy you all that wonderful citrus fruit! None of what’s offered around here in the supermarket is any good at the moment.
February 1, 2023 at 4:26 PM
Urspo
It doesn’t seem fair. I am sitting on sacks of the stuff and they don’t last; they need eating asap.
February 1, 2023 at 4:30 PM
johnmichael42003
Oh wow, congratulations on your many years with Someone…
And is Scottland PA a movie or a series? And where can I watch it?
February 1, 2023 at 7:36 PM
Urspo
It’s a movie. I think we saw it on Netflix
It does a great job with Macbeth in a fun way.
February 1, 2023 at 5:09 PM
Blobby
yay. i got a fist bump…….kind of.
February 1, 2023 at 7:36 PM
Urspo
Indeed you do!
February 1, 2023 at 5:37 PM
glen
Happy Anniversary to you and Someone!!! Will Harper throw a party in your honor? Also congratulations on your success at the gym! Way to go
February 1, 2023 at 7:36 PM
Urspo
thank you on all this!
February 1, 2023 at 7:35 PM
Will Jay
Congratulations on your Dateverssary. If you haven’t learned of any deal breakers by now, you are either mature enough to know how to work through things together according to each of your strengths, or one or both of you are very slow learners after 26 years. I vote for the formrt rather than the latter.
February 1, 2023 at 7:37 PM
Urspo
A good vote indeed !
February 1, 2023 at 8:24 PM
Richard
Hnefatafl ! Gesundheit ! It looks like fun. I used to play chess with that handsome neighbor young man, because we had that in common. I heard about this game and thought maybe we could try hnefatafl. But alas, it never happened.
But today, thanks to World of mine Wednesdays, there was Hnefatafl again! So i went to the play store and yes it was there!
It won’t be the same without a friendly opponent, but it looks interesting. I think i will give it a try.
I think, for reasons that do not need to be explained right now, that i would prefer to not use runic symbols. They give me the angst.
But thank you for providing this space and i am happy that you and Someone are going along.
February 2, 2023 at 7:09 AM
Urspo
If I can’t find a fellow to play with perhaps someone on line does virtual H?
February 1, 2023 at 9:40 PM
Richard
Sheryl Crowe is here. She wanted to sing If It Makes You Happy.
Oh no, i have a whole thing about that.
February 2, 2023 at 7:09 AM
Urspo
Ms Crowe is a dear; please don’t feed her buns and things.
February 1, 2023 at 11:15 PM
Linda Practical Parsimony
Congratulations on 26 years with Someone. The version of Macbeth sounds like fun.
February 2, 2023 at 7:10 AM
Urspo
It is one of the most entertaining versions I’ve seen in ages. Worth a look-see.
February 4, 2023 at 7:58 AM
Lori Hawkins
I was sad when I heard about Wednesday.
Happy Anniversary to you and Someone!! May you have many more happy healthy years together.