I haven’t done one of these in a long while, so I thought I would give it a go…….
What makes these curious things about the house noteworthy isn’t their peculiarity or rarity but why on earth are they here? The answer is simple: I keep thinking they are going to be useful someday and to throw out things rankles my Midwest upbringing to hold onto perfectly good things. Mind! I am doing on my daily throw something out quest. I am doing very well with this thank you very much. I’ve managed to get rid of the ‘useless objects” but the ‘useful objects’ remain and these can be ticklish. Let’s look at some of them shall we; hopefully you will be amused.
Paper napkins. Every time I order ‘to-go’ items they come with enough paper napkins to wipe the faces of a large family. I use maybe one or two, and the other 5-10 napkins I put in away for later use. As a consequence, one cannot open a drawer or glove compartment or a briefcase without finding 2-3 inches-thick wads of brown or white paper napkins. They are like tribbles minus their charms, and like tribbles they keep coming. Once in a while there is a spill and they come in handy, but this doesn’t happen very often so I have enough paper to mop up a major meltdown. I probably should gather them all up in a wheelbarrow and toss them out. It’s not that I will miss them; more are coming in all the time.
Kitchen gadgets. I like the Kundo-concept of keeping things around if they are practical or lovely.* This doesn’t easily work for the contents of kitchen drawers which are full up with gadgets. Often they are in good shape, having not been used much – or at all. Sometimes I don’t know how they got there. The pineapple corer, the potato scrub brush (its handle in the form of a potato), the shrimp deveiner (looking slightly scurrilous) ought to be packed up to Goodwill or some place like it. Someone points out they are doing no harm being there so why discard them? They could be handy some day – and this is coming from a man allergic to shrimp! No harm I suppose other than the sight of several sets of unused martini olive skewers causes psychological harm to see them. Oh the horror.
Garden tools. When we moved from Michigan to Arizona I could not abide the thought of leaving behind all my garden tools even thought I intuitively knew they weren’t going to be useful in the desert. For twenty years they have sat in the garage, waiting for Godot or someone like him. This includes plastic tomato tents and other frost-protecting devices to allow gardens to grow earlier than the last frost. I suppose I hold onto them on the long shot of living to retirement and moving away from Zone 10 to Zone 5 (or someplace like it) and they can be useful again. The cost of schlepping them probably is more than just buying new things as needed. I managed to let go of the snow shovel a few years ago, although I’ve kept the wind-shield ice scraper and the pea cage (which no one in their right mind would try to grow here).
Knickknacks. The majority of useless things about the house fall into the common category of ‘knickknacks’. This vague but menacing category consists of things that aren’t rubbish nor broken but sort of there – sometimes for so long no one remembers how they got there in the first place. They are sometimes remembered as souvenirs from long ago trips or gifts from people so out of touch you wonder what happened to them. Like the pineapple corer, these don’t do any harm other than clutter up the counters and make the task of dusting more difficult. It feels wrong to throw them out yet I don’t see anyone buying them at Goodwill either.** They stay up out of habit and custom and probably will do so until I die and someone gets rid of them as they have no sentimental value then.
Oh to be living in Chicago! Then, anything put into the alley by the rubbish bin was quickly taken up by someone and Bob’s your uncle. I often wondered what the pickers did with it all but I was grateful they did and all power to them to sell them off.
I think I will start with the paper napkins. These at can go into the paper recycling bins as work. I think this counts as paper, yes?
So, what curious useless things are squatting in your maison nowadays?
*Spouses are exception.
**No harm trying. I could box them up and surreptitiously drop them off on Mr. Goodwill’s doorstep late at night. They probably have video cameras for such shenanigans too.
38 comments
March 27, 2023 at 8:00 AM
Ron
Here’s what is frustrating. I leave a brilliant comment on your post and when I hit “ENTER”, I get the message “Sorry, this comment could not be posted.” I forgot to copy my message before I “ENTERED”. I’ll try again
March 27, 2023 at 8:36 AM
Urspo
WordPress! Always wanting to play games!
March 27, 2023 at 2:58 PM
Ron
They do it every time!
March 27, 2023 at 12:20 PM
Parnassus
Sometimes if you hit back-arrow/previous screen when this happens, the previous reply form will appear with your comment intact. Worth a try! –Jim
March 27, 2023 at 8:07 AM
Ron
Here we go again. Like you I had a plethora of napkins that I had accumulated over the years. Never used them. So last year I tossed the bunch out in the recycle bin. I only kept one package of fancy embossed paper napkins on the off chance I may invite folks over to dinner again. Knick knacks I have many, accumulated over the years and each has its own memories triggered every time I see them. They stay. My grandniece Lyndsay can distribute them to family members as she sees fit as “family heirlooms”, or not. It’s up to her wise judgement. My many books she can also take care of as she already sells books on the Internet. My utensil drawer, many items again, which I keep them all. I know every one and “may use them again”. Some are unique but no shrimp deveiner (my God). One thing I don’t have to worry about with those drawers clogged with utensils, you’ll never see a scorpion hanging out there.
March 27, 2023 at 8:38 AM
Urspo
The downside of knickknacks I’ve discovered is your loved ones will wish you had done some of the discarding while you were alive. I could not get my parents to ‘prepare’ for love or money. We had to do it all. It was their only deficit.
I can send you scorpions; we have heaps.
March 27, 2023 at 3:02 PM
Ron
Could you have one of those lovelies (a big fat scorpion) enclosed in amber and send it my way? Preferably one that hasn’t been squashed by a furious Spo.
March 27, 2023 at 8:25 AM
DwightW.
We don’t use paper napkins, straight to the trash. Garden tools we keep in case an employee-quits or is sick , tchotchkes if they are valuable will be hung onto forever
March 27, 2023 at 8:39 AM
Urspo
The thing about the paper napkins is I always use cloth ones at home, never paper. On Sundays I wash and iron them. I could cut down on waste/save time by using up the paper ones, but my heart’s not in it. Eating at home with paper napkins feels not right for me.
March 27, 2023 at 8:43 AM
Robzilla
Spam musubi molds. I have two of them but I haven’t made any since I moved here. Perhaps I shall get some nori one of these days and give it a go?
March 27, 2023 at 8:46 AM
Urspo
yes yes yes this sounds just the right thing to do
March 27, 2023 at 9:27 AM
Paul Brownsey
I should like to make a plea on behalf of things that one doesn’t throw out because they could come in useful one day even though one doesn’t have the faintest idea how they might be useful.
The packaging of some household appliance we bought included some wee blocks of wood, around an inch square and three inches long. “I’ll keep them–you never know,” I said.
Some years later, in the choir in which I sing, I couldn’t see the conductor properly because of someone in front of me. An exchange of positions wouldn’t help–we were both tall, both on the same level. I had a wander around our loft. There were the wee blocks of wood from our long-ago-bought appliance! One under each heel solved the problem comfortably.
March 27, 2023 at 9:48 AM
Urspo
A testimony!
Indeed something like this seems to validate the prudence to hold onto things.
March 27, 2023 at 9:38 AM
Moving with Mitchell
Paper napkins. I could have stocked a restaurant with what I found in a cabinet in my mother’s kitchen.
March 27, 2023 at 9:48 AM
Urspo
What did you do with them?
March 27, 2023 at 10:44 AM
Debra She Who Seeks
DEFINITELY hold onto that windshield ice scraper. You never know what horrors climate change may bring to Arizona.
March 27, 2023 at 11:36 AM
Urspo
More likely regular temperatures above 50C
March 27, 2023 at 10:47 AM
jefferyrn
When I flew back to Reno for a visit I wished I had my ice scraper.
March 27, 2023 at 11:36 AM
Urspo
You can have mine; I will sell it to you cheap.
March 27, 2023 at 10:48 AM
Old Lurker
Can you request “no napkins” when getting take out food?
I think this is a long shot, but could a local soup kitchen or animal shelter make use of the napkins? I know that animal shelters are always seeking old towels.
March 27, 2023 at 12:13 PM
Urspo
I try to always remember to tell the restaurants ‘no napkins and no utensils please’. At work we have a huge pile of plastic black utensil sits, wrapped up with a paper napkin and salt/pepper packets. Oh the pain.
March 27, 2023 at 11:08 AM
BadNoteB
While eager to read responses to today’s post, I’ve been thinking that the perfect solution to our collective problem would be to ship everything to your house for a grand Spo-Reflections Yard Sale later this fall. While further thought on the matter is required, contributions that immediately come to mind from the BadNote collection would include:
1.) Condiment packets to accompany your napkin collection – soy, taco, sweet ‘n sour, Arby’s sauces, S&P, ketchup, mayonnaise, mustard, pickle relish, horseradish, salad dressings, etc. We have an entire kitchen drawer full of the stuff that is never used and not purged often enough. Similar treasurers await inventory from the hotel soap/shampoo/lotion collection under LOML’s bathroom beauty bar…
2.) Dinner/bar/service ware: blown (hollow stemmed) champagne glasses (24); votive candle-powered drawn butter warmers (6 sets of 4); lobster picks (12); crab shell crackers (6); Irish Coffee glassware (5 sets of 6); Moscow Mule barware (12); “Suck ‘Em Up Hawaii” Mai Tai barware – 70’s vintage (12); complete china sets (for 8 and 12) with serving pieces (3 sets); cruise-line “specialty” cordial drink glasses (6 sets of 4-6) – if you need something for your Buttery Nipples, I’ve got ya covered!
3.) Ski equipment: Alpine and cross-country skis, boots & poles (4 sets, men’s, with carrying/travel cases); ski pants, snow suits, hats, gloves, etc.; water skis, slalom and doubles (3+1). All slow moving items in a drought-stricken desert climate…
4.) Kitchen gadgetry: cork screw/bottle-opener collection (50+ pieces – I’ve never thrown one away); pastry blenders (8 – I used to collect “really well-made ones” but have only ever used my original favorite); square hard-boiled egg press (??? – a useless 70s novelty you can’t imagine); s/s 7-wheel dough cutter; electric blenders (4); ice cream/gelato maker; electric pasta machines (2); bread machine; chocolate (bonbon/mignardise) molds – polycarbonate (16); panini cooker; French fry cutter (2); earthenware/ceramic cookie molds (36, assorted shapes); copper cookie cutters (18); copper gelatin molds (8)… this list is off the top of my head without opening boxes of the misfit treasures stowed deep within the bowels of the garage.
March 27, 2023 at 12:20 PM
Urspo
Such a list! It certainly doesn’t lack for variety.
At work, in both offices, are a large pile of condiment packages and plastic utensil sets that always come with the food/rep lunches. The mayo packets over time tend to plump out like Violet in “Willy Wonka and the chocolate factory”. Oh the horror.
March 27, 2023 at 12:33 PM
Old Lurker
Don’t be eating the contents of bloated mayo packets, please. You have had enough GI distress for a while.
March 27, 2023 at 4:18 PM
BadNoteB
So when are you scheduling our yard sale??? 🤣
March 27, 2023 at 12:44 PM
Parnassus
You can see the square egg press at work on Youtube:
–Jim
March 27, 2023 at 1:04 PM
Urspo
Fascinating!
March 27, 2023 at 4:21 PM
BadNoteB
OMG, you’re the best! That’s exactly it!
March 27, 2023 at 12:50 PM
Parnassus
My problem is that I’ll need something, say a whisk. The first one I buy probably is not ideal, so I start getting more and more of them until I find one I like. Now the problem is what to do with all the extra whisks, so I end up keeping them. (There is no goodwill here.) –Jim
March 27, 2023 at 1:05 PM
Urspo
I feel this for we have three whisks, and wondering how that happened. One does nicely.
Are there no church or charity groups looking for handouts there?
March 27, 2023 at 2:44 PM
Lori Hawkins
The only advice I have is to continue to declutter and don’t bring anything new in.
March 27, 2023 at 3:02 PM
Urspo
Aye that’s the trick: get things out and watch like a hawk about things wanting in.
March 27, 2023 at 3:31 PM
Gigi Rambles
I think unused paper napkins can be recycled; you just need to do it.
As for all the gadgets in the kitchen, the knick-knacks, etc. send it all to Goodwill – you’d be surprised what people buy. And, at least at my Goodwill, they do have cameras and signs asking that people not leave items after hours. I doubt if the police would be called but still…
With all that being said, my kitchen (and garage) is full of gadgets and things that The Husband never uses but refuses to get rid of. *sigh*
March 27, 2023 at 3:56 PM
Urspo
Maybe the solution is to get rid of The Husband? This may solve a lot of problems in one move. Just don’t drop him off at Goodwill after hours.
March 27, 2023 at 7:20 PM
martin
I bring those paper napkins into my office and use them for occasional spills of tea or water, or for wiping fingers when eating lunch.
March 28, 2023 at 7:17 AM
Urspo
I just took a wad of napkins out of my office desk and put them in the paper shredder. I still have heaps left.
March 28, 2023 at 6:58 PM
Richard
I save paper napkins. You just never know when you are going to have to dry a tear or blow a snotty nose. Probably i have too many, but oh well.
March 28, 2023 at 7:50 PM
Urspo
I have heaps; you are welcome to them.